“I miss you! Lets hangout soon”
no no no no no no no. stop it.
This infuriates me for many reasons.
I personally feel like if we are friends you shouldn’t have to miss me. EVER. Real friends hangout and keep in touch regularly. Theres no reason I should have to go months without talking to my “friend” especially with all the technology we have. I have found out over years that no one is ever too busy. People make time WHO they want to. If you really want to see me or talk to me and be a friend you will go out of your way to do so. If you can sit down and watch tv after your “busy day” im pretty sure you can send me a text??????
I know this gets tricky, because I do go to school out of state. Im about an hour away from my friends at home, so of course I go for periods of time without seeing them and they will say “i miss you leeza” but heres the difference… these friends always talk to me, and they actually WILL hangout with me when they can.
but .. IF YOU FUCKING TELL ME YOU WANT TO HANGOUT WHEN YOU HAVE NO INTENTION OF DOING SO PLEASE KINDLY FUCK OFF.
Im go home VERY REGULARLY like every 2-3 weeks I will be home for 3 day weekends. There is absolutely no excuse. Like make real ass plans, or don’t. But please don’t act like you miss me when you don’t do anything about it to change it.
Say what you mean and mean what you say. Don’t say we should hangout if you never plan on doing so, and don’t ever tell me you miss me when you never even bother to hit me up. thanks.
shout out to the homies who keep in touch and chill regularly, you real AF.